feat(routing): move sticky-key retries into routing policy with lazy attempts

Replace the provider/endpoint max_retries fields as the source of same-key
retries with a routing policy setting, sticky_key_attempts (default 2). Only
the first-ranked candidate is retried on the same key; every failover
candidate gets a single attempt so failover keeps advancing instead of
retrying each fallback key.

Materialize exactly one attempt per candidate and derive same-key retries in
the attempt loop after a candidate-scoped failure, so the retry budget no
longer inflates up-front materialization and needs no upper bound. The budget
travels in the report context; retries reuse the plan with a fresh candidate
id and incremented retry index. Pool groups only retry their first key within
the retry-index stride.

Expose the setting in the routing profile editor and the set_scheduling rule
action, and drop the max_retries input from the provider form.

crates/aether-routing-core/src/actions.rs

@@ -73,6 +73,8 @@ pub enum RoutingAction {
         priority_mode: Option<RoutingSetPriorityMode>,
         scheduling_mode: Option<RoutingSchedulingMode>,
         keep_priority_on_conversion: Option<bool>,
+        #[serde(default, skip_serializing_if = "Option::is_none")]
+        sticky_key_attempts: Option<u32>,
     },
     SetProviderPriority {
         provider_id: String,